Why would a married man tell his wife about his mistress and how he feels about her.? why would he tell his wife about how he feels for the mistress, also want wife to meet mistress.why would he tell wife he had sex with mistress yet he telling mistress wife doesn't lack anything he just like the mistress for the person she is. what do you think about this situation ? |
what do i think about the situation?
i think that if i were his wife then i would go selectively deaf
i also think that this man is trying to provoke the wife into chucking him out
i would be tempted.............. |
Who is responsible for ending affair - Wife, cheating Husband or Mistress? It's been 2.5yrs and everyone is aware of extra marital relationship and Husband does not live with wife. Husband asked wife for divorce & she filed but, he or she didn't take further action. Mistress is patient. Wife is stubborn. Both wife & mistress depend on husband. |
Mistress has nothing to lose.
Husband likes the 2-women deal he has going on.
That leaves the wife. |
Who is more pathetic, the wife or the mistress? Picture This: A man cheats on his wife, the lovesick mistress expects him to leave his wife, the wife finds out about the affair, the man is remorseful, he dumps his mistress, the wife forgives him and they all go on in their lives.
In your opinion, who's more pathetic: The wife for staying with her lying cheating husband or the mistress for actually thinking her lover was going to leave his wife for her? |
I think the one who is the most pathetic of all and who is the one that ends up the loser is the MAN. The mistress is stupid of not believing that statistically the wife always wins 90% of the time, and as for the wife (if innocent as to why her husband strayed) is the one that sympathy should be given to.
You can't answer a question like this though not in a general way, for their are always reasons why cheating goes on. So therefore always many stories as to why it happens. If a woman marries a man knowing that he was a player before marriage, then yes she is foolish for marrying him in the first place, but unfortunately we women always tend to think we can change a man - WRONG ! Why should they want to change a man, that's what they fell in love with in the first place, but this time of wife then perhaps you can say is the fool. Mistresses are always the fools, for taking risks with married men, but again, if the husband is in an abusive relationship or any other deeply miserable state, then he may well really love the mistress, even marry her and it can work.
Like I say, each case is different and can always be judge individually not in a general way. And you need to remember that when people fall in love it can make them insane, taking chances and risks they'd advise their friends not to do. I sense by the clinical black and white way that you ask your question, that you have never really been in love. Wait till it happens to you, don't judge before you have Personal experience in life of most situations. Life is not simply and matters of the heart often less simple of all. |
Is being in a sexless marriage a reason for divorce if husband refuses sex because wife confronted mistress? The husband has avoided all intimacy with wife because his wife called mistress to inform her the divorce was put on hold! the mistress then cut off sex & relationship with married man.
He told wife he is hurt that he lost girlfriend so he has refused intimacy for over a year. Should she divorce or wait till he comes around and isn't mad anymore? |
| a sexless marriage isn't reason for divorce but cheating and having a mistress is ... |
You ever attend a funeral where both the wife and mistress show up? My poor friend Harry recently passed away and I'm afraid his mistress will show up at the funeral! His wife doesn't know, but it surely would be a scene if the mistress shows up (likely in a short skirt, lots of cleavage and perfume). What should I do? I do know who the mistress is, kind of. I mean, how could I say no when Harry showed me photos? Should I contact her and maybe arrange for her to visit during off-hours? The funeral director probably deals with this kind of stuff all the time, no? |
| No not the wife & mistress BUT I have been at one that mistress #1 (someone I work with) AND mistress #2 (who NO ONE knew about) where there at the same time...one of the Attorney's at my job passed away (heart attack) night of the wake everything & everyone seemed pretty normal....the next day the day of the actual funeral at the church the minister speaking asked if anyone had any remarks....the lady I worked with stood up....but someone beat her to the front to speak....and we all sat in shock....she started talking about the out of state & out of country trips they used to take...how he took her skiing in Italy (he also took my friend, different dates though) the lady went on with a few more "intimate" remarks and when done the dead Attorney's daughter stood up to hug her..........needless to say it was the talk of the office for months and the lady I work with was devastated....she thought she was the "only" one....BUT apparently not.....by the way he was divorced (I wonder why) so it was only the 2 mistresses..... |
During the Regency era, when a man married, was his wife mistress of the house, or his Mother? If a man's father had died and he had become head of the house, but his mother was still alive, she was considered the mistress of the house, and in charge. When the man took a wife, did the wife then become the mistress of the house? Or is the mother still in charge? |
The wife became mistress of the house.
In the case of, say, an Earl, when the heir became Earl, his mother would become the Dowager Countess and often move into the Dower House on the estate. That's not to say, though, that the mother wouldn't easily relinquish her former responsibilities! She might have liked to interfere. It's also probable that a new young mistress would be grateful for any advice about running a household, especially if she came from a smaller one herself, or didn't have a mother to advise her. |
If man wants to keep wife and mistress, and mistress decides to leave him, how would he feel about mistress? Mistress does NOT want to be in such relationship anymore. She wants out! The man wants both wife and mistress. Sleep with both of them. She decides to tell him that she will leave him. How would he feel about the mistress and her actions? |
| The fool will most prob get another mistress. |
Can a husband be in love with his wife and Mistress too? I am a wife and I am just curious, Can a husband be in love with his wife and his mistress at the same time? |
Why not? A parent can love 2 guys.
Mabye he loves the wife as a partner and co-parent but she didn't give him what he needed elsewhere in the marriage. So then he loves the mistress as a lover and a friend.
BC |
Which wife should I tell about my mistress? OK, I cannot live a lie anymore about my mistress. But which wife do I tell? The one I married first or the one I currently like best? |
| Whichever one gives the best bj's |
Should I tell my wife that my mistress is pregnant with my baby? I don't believe in using condoms so I took the chance that my mistress really wasn't on the pill. It turns out that she wasn't on it anymore. She ended up getting pregnant and we are going to keep the baby. How do I tell my wife? By the way, my wife is already 3 months pregnant with our 3rd guy. |
They say that for every guy out there, there are six women in this world for him.
Now I know where one of my five others are.
Thanks a lot Dude. |